I understand people without time doing kits, obviously. Perfect sense, and I had years like that, three young kids and busy job.
As for taking one step at a time, that can involve drinking a lot of kit beer when you could be drinking AG beer and gradually learning more about it. It's not difficult. If you want five gallon batches but don't want to get the gear for it, make partial mashes. Add a mini AG to a kit, or to some malt extract. I bang on about it cos I wasted years before doing it myself. I tolerated kit beer. I love AG beer. And the only extra gear I needed was a stock pot and a muslin bag. I never made a kit beer that was even close to my first AG brew.
As for taking one step at a time, that can involve drinking a lot of kit beer when you could be drinking AG beer and gradually learning more about it. It's not difficult. If you want five gallon batches but don't want to get the gear for it, make partial mashes. Add a mini AG to a kit, or to some malt extract. I bang on about it cos I wasted years before doing it myself. I tolerated kit beer. I love AG beer. And the only extra gear I needed was a stock pot and a muslin bag. I never made a kit beer that was even close to my first AG brew.