Unless you have a serious reason to not use the bottle upside down I would stick to the normal FE.
When it's a normal FE, you can "service swap" it for another full one at a fire protection shop, 2 minutes circa 15 quid. If you say you want the same one back again and they ask why... you tell them it's modified you will be back to "We won't touch it.", even if they do fill it for you, you will have to leave it with them for a day or two, maybe longer. They may ask for a retest fee.
I expect if you change the valve, no fire protection place, that isn't involved in providing modified ones, is going to go near it.
Gas suppliers are very picky, because a CO2 cylinder or valve that fails during filling is VERY dangerous. Before my local place will fill my Pub bottle, they want £18 for it to be tested and stamped (with the Gas suppliers own serial number), they will then happily swap it for a full bottle at a cost of £20.
I would expect they have a kind of trust with FE places that the bottles are tested (as part of the service), but when you start to mix in modified homebrew usage ones, I expect a lot of places will not want to know.
The other issue of the "squeeze trigger" depends on how you intend to run the keg. The regulator pipping holds a fair amount of CO2, I find that I only need to squeeze the trigger after 3 or 4 pints, maybe longer, though I don't like to let the gas line pressure fall as there is potential for beer foam to get blown back up into the regulator should the keg side pressure exceed the CO2 bottle pressure. A one-way valve is a good idea.
You can always clamp it or cable tie it, like you would for using with a fish tank. I prefer not to, as I then don't need to check for leaks, as long a the keg pressure is satisfactory and the trigger defaults to off, no gas can leak.