The idea that democracy only gets to happen once is almost as insane as the assumption that the "Nats" will be in charge of running an independent Scotland.
Both premises are usually peddled by people being completely disingenuous, of course.
The "premise" I was trying to raise is that unfortunately the current Scottish Govt isn't really doing that well. There are numerous problems which require to be addressed prior to IndyRef 2; sadly some folk just feel that wishing for independence will solve them
If the Nationalists in power took more time to fix the problems AND try to persuade the doubters (me included) that there is at least an economic argument, maybe, and only maybe, we could have a balanced discussion as to the future.
Post-independence, I, and many others would drop the SNP like a stone. I don't think they are great at governance (albeit better than those at Westminster), but they are essentially governing with one hand behind their back.