The grey disconnect fits both as the gas post is slightly larger. If the black disconnect is connected to the gas post , it takes a fair bit of pulling to remove it. I use green and red O rings on the keg posts . G for Gas , G for green and G for Grey . So the grey disconnect goes on the gas post which has a green O ring . It saves a lot of messing when I'm hooking them up. Some second hand kegs have faulty posts fitted or they've had a hard life and picked up a few knocks over their lives if you can identify the keg , you could pick up a replacement liquid post . There's a lot of different brands and they're not all interchangeable. It can be difficult to remove the posts as stainless on stainless can cause galling , in other words they can bind todether. You may need to shock the spanner with a hammer to get them separated.
Apologies for repeating the last two previous posts we were all typing together at the same time