Gunge.

[IainM]

Crikey. I'm not qualified to give any advice, being the sort of guy who, when faced with hormones, seizes up like a deer staring at the approaching headlights, but you have my sympathies and best wishes. Good luck, I'm sure you'll ride it out an emerge stronger on the other side.

 

[partist]

Having been through something similar, I can understand your frustration. I can only say that if your relationship is strong enough you will eventually come out the other end even stronger. Just be patient.

 

[ElvisIsBeer]

Great post by Dutto. Pretty much nailed it. All I can add are three clichés with an element of truth/sense in them.

1. Time is a great healer.
2. Count to ten.
3. Least said, soonest mended.

And if I ever learned to listen to my own advice, then I'll maybe live to be a better man. Until then.......

Good luck, Gunge