Did you hear this from "Russian experts" who never lived in Russia?
There is a good Russian expert, her name is Natalia Zubarevich, she works at Moscow State University. While it is obvious from her interviews that she is absolutely against this stupid war, she must be careful not to jump into politics or criticise Moscow. She recently gave an interview to "foreign agent" Yulia Latynina (this is her Youtube channel
https://www.youtube.com/@yulialatynina71; she often interviews ex-Zelensky's Strategic Communications Adviser Oleksii Arestovych
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oleksii_Arestovych and Ukrainian journalist Dmitry Ilyich Gordon
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dmitry_Gordon).
Zubarevich confirmed that Russia may carry on
indefinitely the conflict with Ukraine if things won't change. And it does not look like things are changing
Meanwhile, we all know that our prices went up significantly more than our wages. We directly suffer from this war and will suffer more if Houthis continue messing up with our supply chain
I am against "footballers syndrome" (I invented it
, it is when someone believes he/she is part of something bigger, but in reality he/she is being exploited, like football fans - they say something like "we won the cup", but, in reality, it is not them, but some other people, gained lots of money, the fans lost money on tickets and merchandise) - it is not worth risking our lives, worsening our quality of life and wasting money in a form of taxes for sake of gratification that will make rich people even richer
However, I do not know the solution to war - I suspect it is already out of control of the US and the EU