It's refreshing - even genuinely touching, especially online, to have a conversation which started off with two people coming from two very different positions, bordering on antagonistic, ending up this way. You have given me plenty of food for thought too. Honestly, this debate has shaken me out of some of the dogma I had entrenched in me :)
If you are interested in the two fundamental (to me) but not commonly-held (yet, I hope!) ideas that I hold central to my personal political and economic thinking they are:
a.) That governments only try to balance the books as an excuse to get out of public spending they could afford all along as controllers and distributors of their own fiat currencies. The best introduction to this is the extremely readable The Deficit Myth by Stephanie Kelton
b.) that fascism isn't necessarily an ideological extension of right-wing politics, but it is the logical extension of the actions of the holders of capital to justify why there not enough left for the working classes. The short weekly podcast 'Economic Update' by Professor Wolff 'taught' me that.
Meanwhile there are numerous articles about how much the super rich own as a proportion of national and global pies, and the numbers are staggering (and getting more incredible).