I’m yet to get reliable reading from my refractometer, but I find it is a useful guide. Mine was bought from MM (I think) and was around £35 ish and is supposed to be ATC, but I still have to calibrate it every time with RO water first and this reading does vary, I assume because of room temperature variations.
The refractometers we usually use are designed for wine making (fructose) which is pretty consistant, if we’re using them for beer, the cocktail of different sugars in our wort will vary by recipe and needs that correction factor to work. It does sound like a faff, but if you’re using software like BeerSmith it’s incredibly easy.
I take a hydrometer reading for OG and from this sample also note the refractometer reading, these both get entered for that session and this gives me my refractometer calibration, which it stores for that brew. All subsequent readings simply have the option selected that calculates for alcohol present and it uses the OG already entered as reference.
I take two readings a day until gravity settles down, the sample drawn can be as small as practical, about a tablespoon. I’ve found the clearest reading uses only one single, small drop on the glass, it doesn’t matter how turbid the sample is.
I still use a hydrometer to take the FG from a de-gassed sample taken from the final serving keg so the beer has been fully mixed. I don’t get a reliable FG calculation from the refractometer, but it is a useful indication.
<edit> I take regular samples from a sampling port, I’m not endorsing lifting the lid on a FV several times a day!