Others will disagree but I got the hop spider and I think now it was a redundant purchase. Grainfather themselves say that the hops should form a natural filter around the filter itself and after dispensing with the hop spider for the last 3 or 4 brews I'm inclined to agree.
The hops are no problem as long as you're careful not to dislodge the filter OR secure it more firmly in place using jubilee clips. Or turn it the other way around. All of these tricks work.
Edit to add: removing the ball valve permanently, IF you're careful to never accidentally start the pump with no attachment (easy done, especially as the connect unit activates the pump at the start of mash automatically) - is a major improvement. The ball valve is guaranteed to block so getting rid of that is a boon.
Blow with a bike pump through the pipe before each brew.
Sparge tank not needed, yes you can heat your own water. The official sparge tank is just a (overpriced) tea urn really. Personally knowing what I know now, I would find a second hand tea urn and use that for convenience. I wouldn't want to mess around with stockpots etc in my tiny kitchen.