Well, the parcel arrived today and I told the postman blah blah blah and he didn't deliver it xD Told him to send it back. Money was released the other day so I got my money too. Do I feel sad? Nope, when I say no returns I mean no returns and there's nothing ebay can do about it ^^ So lesson here, if you have a parcel arrive by post you can legally refuse to accept it and what happens to it after that, possibly returned to sender, possibly stays in the sorting office and then destroyed 3 months later. Either way I don't care xD