I'm on the fence with this one. I'm normally on the "You're a pervert, you've been called out and everyone thinks you're a pervert"
However, I'm struggling a bit here with "Sexual Harrassment" being telling smutty jokes.
I work with a guy who is South African. I promise you, he really isn't racist and the reason he's here is because he absolutely hates racism and his white British Father was arrested in the 1980s for inviting his Black work colleagues and their families over for a brai (South African BBQ) and to use the pool! As soon as he could, he came over here as he has a British passport.
However, he worked on the trading floors in the City for 25 years before working in the public sector. So he says things which in our place are unacceptable. I'm not talking huge things, just some of his sayings that he brought over from banking where it's proper dog eat dog - people screaming at each other. Saying things which frankly in everyday life would have you fired on the spot.
One of the things he said in a meeting the other day, my Manager simply said "Sorry, that's not an acceptable thing to say, so I'd suggest you don't say it again". Case closed. Won't be said again.
No-one was offended. No-one was reprimanded or disciplined.
You've probably seen from the way I am here, I don't accept racism, sexism, bigotry, homophobia or xenophobia.
But I'll tell you to your face. I'll be firm, but not offensive.
I have no idea why these women said "He kept saying rude jokes, being offensive and smutty" and not one of them turned round and said "Gregg, you know, that's offensive. Don't do it again".
Shut it down. Job done.