It's a fair point. When I used to brew kits I did have the odd problem. I feel it came down to the following.
1. The supplied yeast is only 6g, the bare minimum required to ferment a kit out.
2. Variation in temperature stresses the yeast.
3. Poor aeration technique deprives yeast of oxygen when starting.
Therefore my solutions were.
1. Use yeast vit in each brew or, better still, ditch kit yeast for an 11.5g sachet of S04 or similar.
2. Keep as constant a temp as possible; I achieved this by using a brewfridge but you could also use a brew belt and a timer set to come on for 15 minutes every hour.
3. Aerate the cr@p out of the wort with a hand blender.
Hope this helps
Sean.