to answer the question with reference to my quote, pooh as a Toaist does not believe in death. Yes that consicousness might cease but the essence carries on, and I, as an observer mourn only my loss, which is strange as it is only the changes that person has brought upon me, only their effect on my life that makes me feel this way. The pain I feel is the memory of them or to be more precise their shaping of me, that will never leave me, they are always with me as they forged the person that I am.
so back to the quote and the riddle of life, Wez's question seemed rhetorical and self reflecting in which case the obvious answer is the true one, except sometimes people deny it.
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