I have all the shiz-diz on my car. Start-stop, auto braking, lane departure, blind spot warning, hill assist, auto-cruise, parking beepers, self park, auto wipers & lights, keyless start & entry etc...
What do I use? Just the wipers and lights really. If I'm stuck in traffic or something I'll let the start-stop do it's thing. I don't like the auto cruise so I use the ordinary type.
I semi agree about things being too sophisticated that a home mechanic can only do basic stuff but then again, with regards to the engine, if we want to reduce emissions then we need the technology.
For the average car buyer, yesterday's gadgets/technology is old hat and they want the latest trinkets regardless of whether they use than or not.
I do think that systems such as auto park and beepers makes people lazy and before long I expect many will be unable to park correctly unassisted.
I also think that people who rave on about the gubbermint cheating this and that should invest in a tin hat. :-)