Not done one of these but I found this article which is quite useful.
https://homebrewanswers.com/new-england-ipa-recipe/
You could find a kit with a highish IBU like the Coopers Bootmaker which not too dark to use as a basis if you want to use a one can.
I would not add any more hops for bittering but you could use the flame out and dry hop schedule in the article.
As far as the cloudy nature of the beer, its uncharted territory for me. Just dumping loads of oats and torrified wheat without some form of partial mash or just after a steep might give you all sorts of starchy problems, so personally I would just not bother or be very very sparing. Others may have better ideas
As for yeast the article makes some suggestions including US-05.
Finally I also found this too
https://byo.com/article/neipa-style-profile/
Hope this is useful
You could try a cheap Wilko IPA kit and brew short as a trial. That way if it doesn't turn out to your liking it wont have cost you too much.
Kit review here
Wilko hop & cheer IPA
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