My AG brews are usually all fermented out within 7 days, less if the OG is around 1.045 or lower. I usually do 3 days' diacetyl rest at a couple of degrees over my fermentation temp and then 2 days at as low as my fridge will go, 1 to 3 degrees or so.
Conditioning time, for me entirely depends on the beer your trying to produce. I like really hoppy beers - AIPAs, American Pale Ales, West Coast Reds etc, and so I drink them as soon as they are carbed up, which is usually around 10 or so days after bottling, having been kept at room temp. That's because I want that really fresh hop aroma a flavour, which starts to drop off after a few weeks as the hop oils oxidise.
I'm also partial to an oatmeal stout, and I found when I've brewed those, that I drank them all before they were at their best. So dark, malty beers probably need a good couple of months, and probably more to be at their very best.
What I'm saying is, there is no "rule of thumb". You have to let your taste buds decide when a beer is at it's sweet spot, write it down and know it for the next time you brew that beer. Remember, conditioning time isn't necessarily the time it takes to fully carb up the beer. I consider it to be the time it takes for that beer to be at it's peak in terms of flavour. For something like a RIS, that could be 18 months.